It was 5:15 a.m. one morning that I got a message from my maid.
She was man down with a tummy bug and would not be coming to work.
We rely so much on our maids, don't we?
They really are an important part of our families.
So she wasn't coming to work. It's school holidays. I'm thinking, "Oh crap! Not just one child but now two to sort out."
Anyway, snacks got packed. Toys and entertainment packed. Blankie for naptime packed.
And we all went to work.
But in between receiving the message and getting to work I got so stressed out. My whole plan and morning-time routine was now out of whack .
And along came my 6 year old who said , “Mom. It's Ok to be stressed. It's ok but you need to calm down and breathe. Breathe, Mom.”
Don't you just love that what you say to them comes right back at you at the most appropriate time?
I breathed and reached for Relicalm.
It's like a large cup of tea - it has the same ingredient as tea l-theanine - which helps to calm you. Now you know why that cup of tea works so well! Relicalm also promises 5 hours of calm . Just what I needed!
And that is the kind of stress that we all dealing with - not the fight or flight - that is part of our evolution.
There was no fight for me and no physical escape route that I needed to take.
It was all mental but our bodies release chemicals for the physical fight or flight. Snce we're not in a situation that requires physicality those stress chemicals start to cause havoc on our body’s systems.
Let's take a look at the impact of stress on our body -
Memory - Long term exposure to cortisol is linked to shrinkage of the memory part of your brain. A Finnish study found that patients with persistently high cortisol levels were 3x as likely to develop Alzheimer's.
Head - Studies have shown that an increase in the stress hormone adrenaline can cause migraines. People who have tension headaches tend to translate their stress to muscle contractions.
Heart - reggular feelings of being highly stressed can lead to an increased risk of a fatal stroke. High cortisol levels are more likely to have high levels of bad (LDL) cholesterol. Long term stress is a factor leading to raised blood pressure.
Skin - skin conditions like acne, rosacea, eczema and psoriasis can worsen when you are stressed.
Digestion - emotions and the gut are closely linked. Think of butterflies in your tummy. But also runny tummy, a sore tummy, indigestion and heartburn .
Immune system - Ongoing stress can deplete the body's resources to fight infection . Studies have shown that those under long-term stress have lower white blood cells - the guys that fight the bacteria and viruses that cause illness.
I know that when I was diagnosed with pneumonia in August ‘17 it was a result of long-term stress. My immune system was at rock bottom .
Mood - stress can leave you unable to concentrate, inefficient and accident prone. The ongoing release of cortisol and adrenaline - the stress hormones - disrupt levels of the feel good chemical - serotonin . This may lead to depression.
So what's a girl to do? -
1) Breathe! Really.
When you're under stress your breathing is rapid and shallow. Breathe through your nose for a count of 5 and out for a count of 6.
Do this 5 times .
He who half breathes, half-lives.
2) Get Moving
Chase your children in the garden, what about a game of touch rugby? Turn up the radio and dance! Go for a walk around your complex or on the road .
3) Create a list of activities and people who bring you Joy
Make time to do something that makes your heart sing .
I love crocheting and I am making a blanket for our king size bed!
P.S. Stress suppresses your body's production of testosterone which helps control abdominal fat.
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Do you think that you only need probiotics after antibiotics?
Only 6 more sleeps till Christmas!
Our tree is up and lights flashing off and on 24 hours a day.
We’ve just celebrated J’s 6th birthday and preparations are in the making for 25 December when we’ll be all together with extended family.
It reminds me of Pink’s song from a few years back – this used to be a fun house, now it full of evil clowns! – Christmas can do that can’t it?!
But let’s not forget the reason for all of this celebration and togetherness….
Anyway, I’ve always thought that probiotics were something that you took after a course of anti-biotics.
Hands up if you thought that too!!!
Well it turns out that probiotics are even more important to take than just after antibiotics.
Our bodies have more than 20x the amount of bacteria to living body cells. And the bacteria in our digestive system have a huge role to lay in keeping us healthy.
A healthy digestive system and an immune system that is in great shape are imperative to your health and ability to fight infections.
The right bacteria have an important role to play too.
There are of course, good and harmful bacteria.
Harmful bacteria can cause infection or produce substances that lead to inflammation or cancer especially in the digestive system – think colon cancer.
What you choose to eat has a big impact on the balance of good vs. harmful bacteria in your gut.
As a result this has an impact on your overall health. Probiotics are the good bacteria made in your gut
Eating probiotics makes an impact in a number of ways;
As we age the amount of good bacteria declines so supplementing is a good idea.
There are 2 groups of good bacteria – and they help to control the bad guys.
The resident bacteria in your gut are;
Probiotics help to fight infections -
You can find probiotics in fermented foods and supplements. These are foods that include probiotics;
Buttermilk, yoghurt, cheese, kefir, lassi, leban, cottage cheese
Fermented vegetables, pickles in brine
Miso, tofu, tempeh, tamari, shoyu, soya yoghurt (all from soya)
Sourdough bread (from wheat/rye)
These foods listed above don’t contain Lactobacillus and Bifido bacteria that colonise the gut.
These foods contain other strains of probiotics.
And just like a tourist, they come to visit the gut, populate it with goodness and then move on after about 10-12 days.
They assist in making vitamins and converting lactose from milk sugar to lactic acid.
It is this lactic acid that creates a slightly acidic environment which constrains disease causing germs
These transient bacteria are Lactobacillus Bulgaricus, Lactobacillus casei, L.sporogenes, Streptococcus thermophillus.
When considering a probiotic supplement then look for at least 1 – 25 billion living organisms
And your 2 core resident bacteria – Lactobacilli acidophilus and Bifidobacterium bifidum
There are also foods that are a forerunner to probiotics called, not surprisingly, prebiotics!
They encourage the growth of the 2 resident bacteria,
they help to lower the pH of the colon,
keep blood sugar levels even and
for people who have liver disease, and prebiotics can help to reduce ammonia levels.
Two common prebiotics are FOS (fructo-oligosaccharides –yup they’re sugar molecules) and inulin.
These are some sources of FOS –
bananas, barley, soya beans, Jerusalem artichoke and chicory.
Some sources of inulin are onions and garlic.
Prebiotics work together with probiotics to feed and speed up the growth of the beneficial bacteria.
What can you do to get the benefits of probiotics?
Try to reduce the elements that destroy probiotics from your lifestyle like;
Supplement with a probiotic supplement that has a variety of strains and at least 15 billion Colony Forming Units.